I currently have no clue what to do with the girl I like

i mean worst-case scenario you guys can just become friends

if she’s not ready for a relationship yet (and so arent you) then you can always just… not publicly announce it
technically you wouldnt be in a relationship but you also get to act lovely dovely to eachother, which also comes at the added benefit(?) of that you dont have to worry about not giving enough of your time, etc

if you have trouble talking face to face you can always just text eachother

Your living my dream though I have no interests at the moment :sob:

Thank god it’s not middle school that stuff never works

If your having trouble with that, I just make my mind go blank as if I’m talking to anyone else. It works pretty decently and I don’t get nervous at all. Essentially become thoughtless and don’t think so hard about how they view you or if you sound weird

Formerly?

From the singular time I had an actual crush, it’s best to just ask them. If yes then good, if no then you just stop seeing them at some point and you’ll never wonder what could’ve been

You could first ask her out in a friendly way, not necessarily romantic. If you live relatively close to each other, a walk is one of the best options to talk to her and get to know her.

How do I know this is a good idea? I did it yesterday :smiling_face_with_sunglasses: (I was in a fairly similar situation to yours)

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yeah how many people here actually play the game anymore lol

Well if you think she likes you back it probably wouldn’t hurt to just slowly get closer to her over time. I feel like if you are going to ask someone out you should do it in a situation where you would remain friends anyway even if that person says no.
Then again I’m really not the best person to get advice for relationships from, since I don’t see the value in anything more than a friendship. As a result, my only advice I can give is to make friends.

I personally—and take this with a heavy grain of salt, because I have no real experience—would advise that you invite her out somewhere in public, like to a park or a restaurant, and to sit down and just talk.

During the conversation, ask her “hey, I could be getting this wrong, but I’ve heard from friends that you had something you wanted to say to me?” if she seems hesitant, you can always just shrug and say “eh, if not, don’t worry about it, they say stuff like that all the time.”

there is no need to be desperate man youre still in school, just chill

if i was you id just bluntly go up and ask, zero reason to beat around the bush and if youre not confident enough to do that, you should consider working on yourself before considering a relationship

i have a diagnosis for this btw, its called being an arcane odyssey forumer

im afraid its terminal :folded_hands:

Wait for the teacher to assign a group project then ask if she wants to work with you

Try to get to know her maybe? Idk just if you have any classes with her maybe make small talk or something? I am bad at relationship advice but that’s the best I could get

Also quite a few women can be very vague when it comes to relationships. Not all, but a lot are. They can say the most vague thing ever and 75-90% of the time they like you back. Take that with a grain of salt though, like I said I’m kinda bad at relationship advice

I have no clue if my advice was helpful or not but that’s just my thoughts

I will say, most of the information I’ve gotten about what she thinks of me has been through her telling my friends after my friends asked her, so I’m sure she wasn’t telling the whole truth or anything. And she has given pretty vague answers to pretty much everything they’ve asked, so :person_shrugging:

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i mean it depends on the kind of person she is, but personally it isnt hard to see why one would feel hesitant to share one’s feelings of another honestly, especially if said feelings are indeed romantical in nature, imo

buddy what are you expecting? you want us to cast a magic spell? you literally said you heard she wants to talk to you more, just do that lol

Other then your own answer which for whatever reason your avoiding I can suggest you do a cart wheel in front of her and give her a rose but I doubt you wanna do something corny

Oh

Were we not meant to cast a magic spell
I just spent the last 3 days collecting people to sacrifice
Bruh