Wot (I’m actually befuddled)
(I’ve gotten befuddled just a few replies in, unfortunately)
YOU HAVE A WIFe???
Gender is always a tricky thing. As a genderfluid, every day feels like a maze, and it’s difficult, but I’m happy with my pronouns today. Also, Sound of Music mentioned!!
If you ever want advice on how to figure some stuff out, my DMs are open. I’m here for you, all of you.
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Well, not WIFE, but we are formally betrothed to each other, and she has been my girlfriend since April. We call each other wife (or husband or “love” depending on my prns, which is another reason why I love her)
so pseudo-common-law marriage?
THAT IS SO COOL i am. So happy for you and hope it all goes well!
Basically, yeah!
I had to ask her mother formally if I can marry her daughter. Why did I happen to have my one be someone from Old World money 
I gotta get a diagnosis for something man, I have something I know that much
I got (a list, prepare yourselves.)
C-PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, ADHD, autism, and, the peak one, hyperawareness to the point I take meds to make my brain RELAX.
(Yes, I am medicated and recovering. I know you all can too, if you are struggling.)
I probably got one of these idk
they synergize, just like my sailor juggernaut
Believe it or not they can come in a PACKAGE DEAL!!
I think I’m seeing a boss health bar after reading that list.
Loki, Deity of Synergies
40,000 / 40,000 HP
That list is suprisingly similiar to mine 
with me its added schizophrenia and such is unmedicated bc i do not think it needs to be (its very minor audio and visual parts) and such turns funky quickly like-
Gets called
Goes downstairs
i did not get called.
Or seeing a spider.
That then dissappears after i blink.
I am afraid of spiders. Them disappearing after i blink is worse than them sitting there.
OOOHHGHGHGH this is too real (I hear memories from the PTSD when I’m existing) but genuinely, I’m here if you need to talk, or want some grounding techniques. I’m here for you, and you got this, okay?
okay alright
there are terms like demiboy, demigirl, demiwhatever where someone doesn’t feel too associated with a particular gender, but is ever so sliiiiightly drawn to one. put “–fluid” after that and basically my gender fluctuates between those kinda-genders (sometimes i feel more masculine, more feminine, but wont ever say im feeling like a full on man or woman or anything else)
grayromanticism is just when you rarely ever experience romantic attraction. so far my two crushes ever have been dudes so i guess i like dudes exclusively (unless?)
the labels seem excessive (and maybe they are) but i like putting names to things
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Yes.
The hatman also got me. . .
Jokes aside my main platform is discord and other than MINOR social anxiety, im mostly good by now
Call me dumb or ignorant (maybe it’s just cuz I’m a conservative or whatever, but I swear I know stuff), but I still can’t get my head around everything.
I don’t mean to offend anyone when I say this (though I understand and acknowledge if it might come off like that), but I think it all does feel a tad bit excessive, this whole thing.
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Idk things may seem excessive but like you don’t really know until you like experience it if that makes sense?
The words used may seem fancy and complex and over the top but really they are just saying “yeah idk if I really fit into one gender and my opinions on my gender change every now and then, and I don’t really experience romantic attraction that often”
I feel like it just seems excessive because you aren’t going to be dumping both of these pieces of information about yourself at the same time usually if that makes sense? (And also the words are ones that aren’t really heard often so it adds a layer of perceived complexity)
understandable, but its just a thing that makes me feel happy
like theres so much shit we dont know, might as well feel secure knowing that i dont have to think about one part of myself too hard (and focus on other things like college work and getting a job and writing lore that will probably never see the light of day)
and like westloonlake said, it’s not something that I regularly share with others, it’s just something that i figured out one day and was like “huh cool.” I dont really expect anyone to completely get or understand it cause they most likely havent thought about something like this as obsessively as I used to 
the most id expect from anyone is just another “huh cool”
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