LiterallyLoki gives you advice!

i still want an analysis on me…

i also wanna see loki do a self analysis, after all no one is safe

can i get help I need girl help - #107 by HeyImFlower_Somei

can we get this man help

Should I be concerned if I feel bad about even the smallest decisions that I make for myself? I really wanted to change my schedule for next semester, just to get rid of Study Hall, and I got it with a couple of classes being shifted around, although now I feel shitty because of it.

Am I just crazy?

nah schedules are weird, but i do have the same thing about small things. i do one thing wrong and get all pessimistic

Okay, you first, then me!

You are kind usually, not MEAN, but the jokes can be seen as such if you aren’t careful. It feels like you need to watch your tone slightly? It can be a risk, but if its more difficult to figure out if your joking, I do recommend trying tonetags around certain crowds.

Also, L4D2 reference? That’s it. You seem chill, just a bit eccentric sometimes.

Now for me

I’m… flawed. Very flawed. I don’t have a good view of myself, so I’ll avoid self-degrading, but I can be harsh and quick to judge, or too forgiving. I’m honestly not that good or kind, I don’t know why these forums tolerate me. Hell, I don’t know why Sock’s been my friend for all these years.

I often ask myself why I’m still alive sometimes. I’m a bad person, god knows I deserve to burn, so being kind? I feel like I can erase a tiny bit of the bad that is my existence.

Ah, is there anything more precious than love?

To quote Random guy, fuck what people think. Go for it.

But do so casually. I’ve confessed with small, kind words of “hey, I think I like you”, and it’s much better than how grand shows or books will make it.

Rejection… sucks. It’s a pain, and heartbreak hurts, but we can experience and realize we are experiencing heartbreak. Isn’t that beautiful? You can feel pain like that, and though it sucks, it’s beautiful in a way.

Even if she doesn’t accept, thats still a beautiful experience.

You’re parents suck. God, they can’t break you up. Love is love, and no one’s being hurt by this innocent crush. @HeyImFlower_Somei , go for it. Fuck what others think, fuck your parents. Would you rather sit and wait with her for a chance, or take the one in front of you and finally give the love you want to give?

Say yes to going to church, by the way. New experiences are always fun!

I wish you luck, my friend.

Ah, anxiety is a weird thing.

You aren’t crazy, trust me. What you are feeling is a slight result of doing stuff on your own. I’m not sure, but I first want to say I’m proud of you for talking about this. It isn’t easy, and that takes some courage.

I want to point out that things don’t always go to plan. Life is chaos, and that chaos can be amazing, or unfortunate. Don’t feel bad about the side effects. You did something good for yourself, and is anyone hurt by it? No! It’s okay.

It’s okay to feel bad, it’s okay to not trust your own decisions. But you didn’t do anything wrong. It’s a strange form of anxiety from what I see, though I could be wrong. I recommend talking to someone who KNOWS psychology. I’m just someone that experiences said psychology.

This is just very real. (Don’t do this, life has ups and downs, I believe in you.)

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very true but i cant really help it when im bipolar and autistic

i hate bringing it up because i dont wanna feel like a victim but its kind of an explanation as to why i am what i am sometimes (i crash out for no reason)

No worries! My wife has BPD, and she struggles, but I mean more- passive aggressive seems to be in your tone for moments. I just want you to not be misunderstood!

yeah i get you

also i didnt know you had a wife congrats

Not a WIFE yet, but I am formally sworn to her and she is to me. She can’t get out of marrying me no matter what >:3

did you get her a promise ring?

I met her at a Model United Nations meeting 2023, she came from a Paris school her senior year, and we stayed in touch. We’ve been dating since April. She makes my world brighter. Even though we’re apart, I can’t help but smile whenever she messages me.

No promise ring, but she is my wife in spirit. I can’t wait to make it a reality.

Overprotective and stressful more. Except my mom, she can go to hell to put it lightly (who calls there own kid a backstabbing traitor)

Why do so many people on the forums have parental issues

Isn’t that called a fiancée? I might be wrong I’m not a native speaker

No clue

we are formally sworn- not proposed or getting married. I am literally going to propose and then marry her. A fiance is someone you’ve proposed to.

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