I think I almost did you, and then barely didn’t because I got swamped with work.
First off, FUNNER ISNT A WORD AHGGHHG (all jokes)
You aren’t mean, instead preferring to be funny and light, but you aren’t nice. You’re like a damn jester, really, and I’m not complaining. You don’t talk that much, but that shows you have other things to do, and I hope those go well.
You just seem fine.
You are next.
You seem really nice, and actually add a lot to conversations.
However, I cannot forgive you for this.
Thats it. Nice, chill.
I planned this for a while.
Stock is a flawed human being, who isn’t, but their responses to some things are… harmful.
I don’t like joining in the hate train, I hardly hate anyone. I believe anyone can get better, but the problem is that Stock has repeatedly been given chances and has not used them. The incident, the constant arguments - I’ll say again, you can be transfem without transitioning, but trans fem, the breakdown of the word, means transition to feminine. I’m fine with them using a label as they want, but they’re responses when I give fair, from my perspective replies are angry, passive aggressive.
They need a friend, but whenever someone tries to be said friend, and doesn’t always agree with them, they fall back on these harmful tendencies and actions. I don’t like people ganging up on them, but I don’t think they are learning what they’ve done wrong. They need to sit down and listen to what people have been saying. Whether they like it or not, they need help.
I’m fine with Stock most of the time. I just don’t understand how they can be so stuck in their ways, and then be stubborn when they know they are wrong. It’s like it becomes a matter of pride. The original purpose of this topic was being helpful was kind to people, telling them how to be better. Frankly, for Stock? I think some deep thought about how they view themselves, how they talk, and, most importantly, what battles to fight is needed.
@StockSounds , as a personal message (I’m sorry for the ping), I want to say sorry, on behalf of the forums for how the interactions go. I know how it feels to be ganged up on. You don’t deserve that, but the more you stay stuck in your pride, the more you refuse to listen, it’ll only hurt you more. I want us to be friends, I feel like, in another world, we’d be good friends, but in order for that world to be this one, you have to stop wielding your rage and defenses upon the first disagreement that comes upon you.
I’ve lost my temper at you before, I’m sorry about that. I’m willing to swallow my pride and self respect to say that I’m sorry for what I’ve done. Please, do the same. We may not get along, but I’m willing to be your friend, and welcome you in my DMs anytime.
Considering I write romance, I believe it doesn’t always have to be, but its more fun if it is. Enemies or rivals to lovers is mmmm