what happens when your state is dangerously close to ohio unfortunately 
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also they say the worst thing they can say is no
but the worst thing they can say is whatās said with their face as they pick up the pace
Iām too narcissistic too have a crush i believe that nobody in my current school around me deserves me and i hate all their personalities it has literally been impossible for me to form a crush since middle school 
twinsies weāre so slay
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in 6th grade i had a crush but never really got the chance to ask her since covid happened around then
Even if I did find a woman I liked, what would be the point at this moment?
I donāt have much to offer, no cash no job, Iām just some kid. Some people my age get in ārelationshipsā anyway, but really itās just two people that say that they are together just to look cool. I donāt want to be like that, I want be serious about something.
But would I even deserve something like that? Right now, I donāt think so. Maybe when Iām older, Iāll find it in me to confess to a girl, but as of now, I think Iāll just stay as friends.
I did have multiple women that were interesting in/I was interested in, but since I was and am young either I didnāt understand or just stayed as friends.
I kissed a girl when I was in 1st or maybe kindergarten? But since we were young, we sort of just stayed friends. We didnāt talk about it after.
I donāt think I would be wimpy enough to not confess to a girl, but I donāt want to confess to someone when I have nothing. I think I should be worth the woman I am confessing to, right? Maybe Iām wrong. Again, itās just my opinion.
tl;dr: too young
mans donāt understand you can be in a relationship just to be. Youāre literally a child, nobody expects you to provide anything so donār worry about that stuff. You should focus on your own growth and exploration because as long as youāre going with genuine interest and good faith then you arenāt wasting your time by simply exploring. Itās okay to develop relationship skills and make mistakes, not everything will be perfect always.
maybe itās just me, but it sounds wimpy that you hide behind money and that stuff to make you worth dating. People date you for you, finances later.
I donāt want to give a woman a reason to leave me. Iām a loyal person, if I like someone I want to be around them as long as I can, and stay connected. I donāt like to lose people, I donāt want to know what it feels like.
If I can find some backing, then Iād be more confident(atleast a job at mcdonalds would suffice).
I do realize that I sound like a nerd rn ;-;
The thing is, Iām not an unconfident person. Iāve told many of my female friends they look pretty, or I like what they are wearing, etc. I guess the problem is I want a woman that I would look at and say: āWOW, what a woman!ā. But is there really someone like that out there?
Again, Iām thinking of trying to get in a relationship when Iām older. My mom expects me to start when Iām 15-16, anyway.
youāre young if you arenāt already working some job, but i seriously wouldnāt worry about having āa reason to leave me,ā it will lead to significantly more problems down the line than your current lack of a job (insecurities cause paranoia, causing distrust, causing issues). Relationships can be intimate and fun, but for now they just arenāt that deep for you so donāt worry about it until you get serious (which isnāt something you should even worry about until you graduate).
That is exceptionally different from being relationship-confident. You are not in any way attached to this person romantically nor are you even trying to pursue them as such. theyāre your friends, you are complimenting them as a friend. it isnāt that deep
gonna be real with you, chief: yes and no. They may catch your eye and you may only find them attractive at first, but if you really love and appreciate them then your attraction to them will increase (trust me, it happened to me). start small and be a little more realistic
I see.
Odd that Iām getting relationship advice from a forum.
What a world!
lol, it doesnāt matter where you get it media-wise, but i speak with some good experience lol
Thank you, Master Liu!
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anytime!
My crush is one of my best friends so thatās a good thingā¦
I really wanna hang out with her idk do something on the weekend
Donāt have/never had a crush. My girlfriend basically had to debate with me to date her. Forgot when I started dating her. Iāll just guestimate it started in early 2022.
Wait what how does that work 
I was convinced.