who is this guy 
the theory stands
how has not a single person here mentioned therapy yet.
find somebody you can connect with and it works wonders.
it takes patience and a bit of luck but if it really is that bad thereās almost certainly somebody you can talk to.
on another note how are we supposed to not dogpile on such a blatantly shit person thatās just here to be a miserable asshole.
They cant just come out of the blue like that they are probably someone that does not like meās alt
Get some maidens
-from a person who has no maidens (very trustworthy)
There are some reasons why I donāt think therapy is a good solution. Not every therapist is the right one for you, and to get in touch with a therapist you need to have a letter sent from your local clinic (at least thatās from my experiences)
there is usually an awfully long waiting list for those places as well, it could take 6 months until you actually get to speak to a therapist.
And while yes, therapists follow studies and are trained to help people the best they can a therapist can only do as much as a human can do.
In this situation, heās much better off opening up to a close relative that knows him and has no waiting list. I still feel more comfortable talking about stuff I struggle with to a friend than to a therapist
why I know this
Iām not mentally unstable or anything, I just got a diagnosis. I talked to several therapists but in my case they didnāt really help me. I donāt really think I needed any ātreatmentā for the diagnosis I got, at least not during the time that I actually talked to them.
I struggled for a period and I showed pretty concerning symptoms but I managed to solve it myself and it was during the time that I was on their waiting list
And thatās kind of my experience
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While I understand you want to share your troubles with a place you trust, a video game forum is not the place for this. Something like this is better to talk to a trusted adult or a therapist about.