I think the core of our argument is a fundamental disagreement in philosophy.
Allow me to introduce to you a concept known as Schadenfreude Utilitarianism: Schadenfreude Utilitarianism: A Philosophical and Ethical Argument in Favour of the Moral Superiority of Random Griefing/Ganking. (and why it's good game design) Reasoning Backed With Maths!
I made it for you. I put a lot of work into it for your understanding, as I am someone who believes anyone can change.