There is fluff.
“[Greeting], [fluff], [message]. [Explanation].
[Fluff]!”
If I ask someone to survive something without threatening or mocking them, it’s a given that I’d be glad that all things went well for them and that I wish for that to stay the same.
It’s a matter of efficiently conveying intent through implications, so it’s fluff as it serves no purpose but to embelish the already established message.
telling someone to be cautious of their health and telling them that they might die in a few months feels a bit different
difference between basically threatening someone without the context of the surgery and having basic empathy
Like I prefer a blunt approach, but that is not how you do it buddy
I’m gonna ask this again since I never recieved an answer, if I hypothetically did decide to get help and they found something wrong, how much is it gonna fuck up my chances of being allowed to transition?
First off, you’re always allowed to transition. it’s up to you, not someone else
Secondly, getting help for other things (in my case autism) has made medically transitioning harder so far (only because my parents suck) but it hasn’t affected my social transition negatively. the people that helped me also helped with that, which was nice :3
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uhm, yes, tone is important for how your message is communicated
you don’t even need fluff, just a bit different wording like “it’d be good to monitor your health for the next few months just in case, that’s when complications usually happen” would work
When I’m in a lack of social awareness and basic decency competition and my opponent is Yrni0 (I might be losing this one chat)
Stay strong btw surgery has always scared me so you officially have bigger balls than me now (metaphorically)
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So having other problems will negatively impact my chances of medically transitioning even further?
maybe, maybe not
it really depends on what said problems are, on parents and on the people providing the resources for medical transition
Depends on what the issues are
1 of the points in the bloody graph is a homicide- also its risk per 10 000 donors; the chances are incredibly low and if something goes wrong the medical team would probably be able to catch it
hello Loki, its been a while can you give me advice about how I should improve myself in being human
hey Loki there’s a conflict in the country I live right now how do I deal with the feeling that I might die each night
I may not know EXACTLY this sensation, but the fear of dying anytime was very real for me growing up. People didn’t like me for being Jewish, LGBT, my sister would genuinely TRY to kill me some days.
So I’m gonna tell you what I would tell myself each night:
“it is not my fault. I am not going to die today. I will die someday, but today is not that day.”
Well… that is what my therapist told me to think, instead of me trying to do the job for my sister.
I don’t know where you are, what side you stand for, but that doesn’t matter. I know that you don’t deserve this fear, this ache and constant buzzing in your skin, asking “when.”
Do what I didn’t. Have something to live for. And remember, if you get iced, the person who caused it WILL be caught for the war crime that is killing innocents. There’s some sort of “heh, I get the last laugh” by knowing the person who did it won’t sleep well.
And finally: stay safe. And eat well. War sucks. People dying for an argument two old men had, or greed. Innocents die every damn day because of people not being able to just sit down and talk. And if they can’t reach an agreement? Don’t let them stop talking. War is hell, war is how we have innocents die, excuses to do horrible things. Entire lines of my family were destroyed by war, by the holocaust, and THAT is what war can bring.
Got a bit heated there, not at you, just… war is murder with a flag to rationalize it. To quote my papa, who lost friends in vietnam who never wanted to go fight:
“Every day, I pray to God that no one dies like my friends did. Grabbing onto me and screaming, crying for some sort of confirmation they won’t die. I miss them.”
He said that to me when I was researching the vietnam war. He died a few years back, 2019 or so, and he was one of the only family members I had to never hurt or abuse me.
I miss him.
And I’d rather die than let his hope that humanity would grow, and be better than what he witnessed, disappear.
Sorry for the rant - just - war is a sensitive subject for me 
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have you played Everhood?
epic rap battles of history!!!
common sense VS. money
BEGIN
“yo yo yo my name is common sense-”
“Hi im the military industrial complex”
+$500,000,000 DOLLARS YOU WIN
loki what is your opinion on the state of israel
I think theyre super sigma except when theyre not cause theyre britis hand british and it not good cause british partiotn and british people are britihs