Pretty much what the title says. For me it’s these things.
• When my mom asks my dad to help her in the kitchen but he just ends up telling me and my siblings to do it.
• When my dad doesn’t let me be in my room
• When my dad accuses me of playing videogames on my phone when in reality I don’t even like 90% of the mobile games out there so I don’t play em,and instead I watch yt, tiktok, or browse the fourms.
• When he asks me to find his shit when he has a higher chance of knowing we’re it is
• When my mom or dad tells me to pause a multiplayer game
No because that’s what they think they’re doing. They bitch about how when I do make a decision for myself that I’m not old enough to or mature enough to
I really dislike when my dad expects me to care about mending or strengthening my relationship with him when he made minimal effort in even communicating with me or not being a fucking tyrant when I was younger. It’s not like I hate him, but the spark isn’t there. For most of my life I was even scared of him, so when he starts bothering me about how I never like to go places with him and shit like that, I get furious.
Funnily enough, my sisters do not seem to have this problem, and they’re pretty friendly with him. I’m not jealous of it, but isn’t that enough for him? I try sometimes, but it’s always extremely awkward and uncomfortable.
I’m obviously not going to tell him this straight up because it’d probably be extremely hurtful, but it’s the truth. Relationships are strengthened through constant positive affirmation over time. I have no obligation to get closer to anyone that I am not responsible for.
Tell me not to use phones at the dinenr table, then proceed to use his phone at the dinenr table.
If I sit in a “bad position”, they will shout at me. A “good position” is your legs not on the sofa.
If I go on my phone, I get hit.
If I go on a computer, I get hit extra hard.
Generally, my dad thinks his opinion is the biggest.