that hasnt been done yet
sure but itâs not like the communities been given any flags whether it will happen or not, like its essentially a ghosted section and I think that if the devs arenât gonna tell us whether they are being read or not then the section itself shouldnât exist in the first place cuz itâs basically default to assume they arenât gonna do it
itâs like the people are posting somewhere with effort with big question mark whether its even being of any use
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what I mean is that every person who says something even somewhat similar or something that could somehow be attributed to your ex, you instantly think all about him all over again and for a few moments image the person who said it like your ex
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Holy shit. Wait this actually made me realize something about myself. I mean, I was abused, I canât help it, I see my ex when I see people have his mannerisms or traits. Itâs trauma, Iâm traumatized, but yeah- the comparing⌠thatâs unfair, Iâll admit that.
HOWEVER - that doesnât excuse bad behavior on other peopleâs parts and, like Iâve said, acting certain ways that DO say bad things about yourself. Like, say, having lewd art of minors in your pfp background, treating everything as subjective when I feel like we can agree some things just shouldnât be.
I wanna clarify, I mean politics and philosophy. My ex is an alt right-winged nationalist that believed that women should be treated as objects. He was, and still likely is a âknot-sea.â Agreeing with his politics and philosophy is the tell-tale sign of needing guidance and severe help. Considering he didnât really believe in CONSENT being needed to do as he liked to me.
And unfortunately, three people, and yes, INCLUDING YOU, have had similar opinions to him and his philosophy that allowed him to do what he did to me. Iâd rather not see anyone else experience what I have.
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Dingleblorbus
what the fein
i dont think thats compatible with catholicism
mods blow this guy up (not literally but you get the point)
big ass wall of text
I want to end this stupid ass beef cuz itâs just getting real annoying every side say some bullshit to the other and acting in such goofy ways. From what I know only optical and I have the same beliefs so Iâm talking from that standpoint
Loki to me you come across as self-righteous almost and sometimes maybe even condescending, I donât know if you do this on purpose or what but the way you come across just makes me (and likely others) see you in a bad way and never want to reach a conclusion. The way you usually say in your replies how youâre âdisappointedâ in someone and tell them to âgrowâ comes off as extremely arrogant, since you would only say that if youâre talking to some ignorant obvious fool, which why to me it feels like youâre constantly belittling my religion/belief, even if you know nothing about it, but optical did not present himself well at all so it can be understandable.
You are not absolutely 100% undoubtedly correct because youâve been traumatized, not because you are part of some minority or group, and not because you have more people supporting your side. None of these give you right to act in such a smug and to be frank rude way to me or my religion or my beliefs. I feel bad that you have had to experience such trauma and horrible things in your life, it is not justified for anyone of any belief to act in such an inhumane way to another. But this is not a reason for your arguments to be valid.
@opticalcord Not only did you go out of your way to do something you know was gonna become a big ordeal with no point, I also warned you to not bother privately yet you ignored that and continued instigating and being a bit sly when you shouldâve just stepped away/not been there in the first place, I hope you understand why now you shouldnât bother but you are like a kid anyway so whatever
Garlic said some very weird and unnecessarily ambiguous statements that I do not agree with at all. I canât say anymore since I do not hold his beliefs so I donât speak for him, but I just wanted to make it clear I do not hold this same position as him.
Lastly to be very clear, I do not care about what you and the group youâre in do so long as itâs unrelated and far away from me and my people and force it on us, if you wanna be gay or whatever sure go ahead I do not care so long as itâs far from me, I wonât bother you, you wont bother me (this is the stupid part of what optical did and why Iâm annoyed with him). Also please be careful to not lump our thoughts with others just because on the surface we seemingly may have similar opinions. Optical is a dumbass, Garlic I do not agree with at all, that guy with the anime pfp bs I do not agree with at all, so it would be appreciated.
In conclusion: I do not agree with what Loki, optical, garlic or whoever else did nor in the way they presented their points. An all around goofy situation (also its a roblox forum bro come on now)
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Thatâs a really great and healthy attitude to this situation.
I always talk to people from a place of everyone, even I, can grow.
If it comes off this way, you DO need to grow. I apologize for coming off this way.
Religion is no excuse to hate a group. Christian grandma that doesnât understand the LGBT but loves me regardless. Jewish grandma on the other side of the family believes that women should be traditional housewives, but doesnât stop my sister from being her punk self.
If a belief stops you from being kind to others for an identity that does not harm, you are what you hate: harm. If your Lord decrees you should change others for their beliefs when they arenât harmful, your Lord is evil.
I donât treat myself like I am. I admit Iâve crashed out recently and started losing my mind. Is that fair? Fuck no. I need to reign myself in. Iâm being smug, yes, I didnât notice that.
A large amount of when I discuss the trauma, it is using it as an example of what homophobia, antisemitism, and hate can do. The time I was threatened to be branded for being gay? That is what hate can do. Iâm sorry if I came off as arrogant or smug. I usually try to treat people with kindness and that everyone can grow and be better. Clearly, I have to grow and get better myself.
Correction: He had lewd art of a character that is a minor as the background in his pfp and did the âsheâs actually an adult maleâ defense. I feel like I had a right to crash out exclusively against him, not anyone else.
Youâre free to âcrash outâ if you feel like it, but telling someone you want them to suffer is a bit too much, wouldnât you agree?
I want you to feel a FRACTION of what itâs like to be hated for dating a man when you are one. Saying âsufferâ was unkind and unlike myself.
I apologize for getting too angry. However, I still want to throw you into the sun in a cartoonish manner that can only be described as âcomically impossibleâ
awesome
Alright so I really went out of my way to write as passive of a response as I can so this could just be peaceful but then you drop this out of nowhere?
Not only did you yet again label something on me again and jump to conclusions you had the audacity to blatantly disrespect my religion â knowing nothing of what I think nor what my religion teaches me. I despise you, not for your sexuality or whatever but you as a person. I hope you live a difficult life unless you change this horrendous attitude of yours 
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Wishing woe upon someone for not believing in hatred and ill intent on people is insane 
Hope you grow yourself, bestie 
ALSO I was speaking generally as to RELIGION and PHILOSOPHY as a whole, not specifically yours - I grew up Jewish, a good chunk of my religion preaches the death on palestine for an ancient conflict. I donât vouch for that, because no one should die over something those people werenât at fault for deciding. Iâm speaking as someone who comes from a household that allows religion as an excuse to look down on others. Iâm happy your fine with LGBT people as long as they arenât close, thatâs great, but wishing difficulty on me for meaning GENERAL RELIGIONS is insane.
Editing this again, I am sorry I offended you for your religion. Iâm not apologizing for standing up for my belief. My belief that everyone can be good and kind, but following a doctrine, regardless of which, can lead people astray from their kindness and true nature of being loving and moral. Iâm not apologizing for standing on the opinion that no religion, no philosophy has the right to alter others for difference, even at the threat of eternal torment.
I hope you come to see that I do wish good for you. I just donât want you to fall victim to hate like so many do.
Depends on the religion tbh
I agree but I also understand that some people get beliefs drilled into their head at a young age, including anti lgbt, anti women etc
You canât really blame people who have been essentially brainwashed (like optical probably)
Iâm not a fan of religion anyway tho so I donât really care at the same time
still shouldnt hate them
hate the sin not the sinner
Well some countries will arrest and maybe even execute gay people so they donât really have a choice but to hate
idk whats going on there 
still its the religion thats at fault not the people
its like how the chinese government is ass but not necessarily the chinese people
Yeah, thatâs my point that religion CAN be somewhat of an excuse
Itâs all about nature vs nurture