So, I don’t think he’s telling the full story here, or atleast doesn’t realise that he’s not.
The event of me blocking him (and I can see that he blocked me too) was just a culmination of events that made me suspicious of this guy. The final straw, if you will. We’re been going back and forth in discord DMs for a few months before our final conversation and the blocking.
We started off relatively normal, talking about our characters, exchanging thoughts, normal art server stuff. What set off the first alarm bells for me was him telling me that he just likes talking to “girls that are better than him”, him complimenting my looks with the “horny warning” in front of it. These two happened back when he didn’t know my age (for clarity, I’m 14 and he told me he was 18).
So we kept chatting for a while, with the more notable comment being that I looked like an old character of his who he avoided talking about because it was sexual to the point of being offensive… Which, I absolutely did not need to know.
And then there’s THIS, which was the biggest alarm bell
On one hand I do feel partially responsible, because I should’ve either blocked him sooner (I really should have) or set my boundaries, but at times i still question how does a person not realise they’re being very damn questionable.
About the “last straw event”, Huan mentioning that he’s a former porn addict is only a part of it. In the full picture, he shared a… Concept of his involving some disturbing things being done to a character of my friend. I won’t disclose the details for the sake of my friend’s privacy and everyone’s collective sanity.
The reason I was repulsed by it wasn’t merely because of the former porn addiction, but because these kind of concepts isn’t something you share with anyone, especially some random 14-year-old online. And plus, this was a character of a friend. Of course this would not go well by me.
This post and the events mentioned are remembered from the top of my head, so the timeline may be a bit off, but I hope this clears up anything regarding our history.
P.S. thank you @FISHDOGFORTHEWINNN for tagging me in this, since I probably wouldn’t have seen it otherwise